What to
Do With Teenagers
Good question. If you have any ideas, write me. I'm still
trying to figure it out. For teens, I think they feel it's more important
who they're with, rather than where they're going. However, here are some
favorite hangouts and activities for teenagers in the area:
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Any place where their parents aren't around. Teens would
have more fun with their friends in an empty parking lot than with their
parents at Disney World. The concern for parents is to make sure their
teens don't get into trouble. That's easier said than done.
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Any shopping mall. In the South
Bay and Peninsula, the major ones are the Great
Mall of the Bay Area in Milpitas; Valley
Fair, Eastridge,
Almaden
Plaza, and Oakridge
in San Jose; The Outlets at Gilroy; Sunnyvale Town Center in Sunnyvale;
Vallco
Fashion Park in Cupertino; San
Antonio Shopping Center in Mountain View; Westgate Mall in Saratoga;
the Pruneyard in Campbell; Stanford
Shopping Center in Palo Alto; Hillsdale Shopping Center in Daly City;
Tanforan Park Shopping Center in San Bruno; The Island in San Mateo; Serramonte
Center in Daly City; Stonestown
Galleria in San Francisco. In the East Bay, there's Newpark Mall in
Newark, Bayfair Mall in San Leandro, Eastmont Mall in Oakland, Southland
Mall in Hayward, Stoneridge
Mall in Pleasanton, Hilltop Mall in Richmond, Sun Valley Mall in Concord,
County
East Mall in Antioch, and Solano Mall in Fairfield. In the North Bay,
there's Northgate Mall in San Rafael and Coddington Regional Shopping Center
in Santa Rosa. New ones are popping up all the time. See here for transit
directions. See here for mall
locations. Malls are relatively safe places, except for the danger
that your teens may spend all their (your) money.
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Great America, Santa
Clara. This is the biggest theme park in Northern California. It is similar
to Magic Mountain in Southern California. It is more of a thrill ride park
than a dark ride park like Disneyland. Every year they seem to add a new
giant ride to challenge your stomach. Conveniently accessible by VTA Light
Rail or from Hwy 101, it is easy for teens to get to. A lot of Silicon
Valley kids have season passes and spend many summer days there with their
friends. It has roller coasters, water rides, carnival games, video arcades,
live shows, and an Imax movie theater. There are also plenty of rides for
little kids. Adults like to see the shows and ride some of the more sedate
rides, so this is a place for the whole family.
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Santa Cruz Beach
Boardwalk.- this is one of the most popular places for Silicon Valley
teens and families to go on hot summer days. Hwy 17 turns into one long
traffic jam as they stream over the Santa Cruz Mountains heading for the
beach and the Boardwalk. The Boardwalk is a long amusement park along a
mile-long beach, between the San Lorenzo River and the Santa Cruz Wharf.
It has rides for all ages, from kiddie rides to the famous Giant Dipper
roller coaster. There's an indoor miniature golf course and plenty of arcades
and carnival games. It has a traditional outdoor carnival atmosphere, like
a county fair or Coney Island. It is a state historic landmark. Its carousel
dates back to 1911, and the wooden Giant Dipper dates back to 1924. Both
are National Historic Landmarks. The park has been operating for almost
a century. The nearby beach is another plus. The water is warm for Northern
California. Little kids can wade by the mouth of the San Lorenzo River.
Free concerts are given in a bandstand on the beach.
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Marine
World, Vallejo - This was once primarily a combination zoo and sea-life
park, but under Six Flags management, it has become a thrill-ride amusement
park, rivalling Great America. (Six Flags also runs Magic Mountain in Valencia.)
It was always a great family park, especially for little kids. They liked
looking at the animal shows, riding on the small kiddies rides, and playing
in its big playground. It was a little tame for teens, though. With the
addition of the thrill rides, this has changed. The animals are still there
-- whales, dolphins, sea lions, sharks, lions, tigers, giraffes, elephants,
etc., but now they've added some state-of-the-art thrill rides. An example
of one of their newest rides is the Vertical
Velocity, which shoots rides up a twisting vertical tower. Marine World
was also famous for their exciting water ski shows, which they still have
(see picture below):
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Water theme parks (see my page
for school-age kids and my "Best
Places to Go Swimming" page).
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Any arcade. They're everwhere. There's a big new high-tech
arcade, the Airtight
Garage, at the Sony Metreon in
San Francisco. The Santa Cruz Boardwalk has several large arcades. Pier
39 has a big one, but it's not cheap. The remaining Chuck E. Cheese
Pizza Time Theatres were known for their arcades, though they're geared
more for smaller kids. My kids' school had their senior grad night at Camelot
Park in Livermore, which has a big arcade and miniature golf. See
here for pictures of it.One of my son's favorite places is Nickel City
in San Jose, where games are only a nickel (or multiple nickels).
Many of the miniature golf places below also have arcades.
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Miniature golf - Some places are Malibu
Castle in Redwood City; Golfland
in San Jose, Milpitas,
Castro
Valley, Stockton,
and Sunnyvale;
Camelot Park in Livermore; and Karts
'N Golf in Fremont. See
here for more listings.
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Any movie theater. Cinema multiplexes are teen heaven. They
can spend all day there. Every city has them. Check your newspaper. Drive-in
theaters are becoming an endangered species. The Capitol Drive-In in San
Jose is one of the last.
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Concerts -- Teens love music, which their parents typically
can't stand. Concert venues are all over the Bay Area. Check your local
newspaper. One popular place for concerts in the South Bay is Shoreline
Amphitheatre in Mountain View:
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Beaches -- The Bay Area's beaches are not just for swimming
and surfing, but for teens to meet and hang out with each other. The most
popular beaches in the South Bay are in the Santa
Cruz area. Hwy 17 on a hot summer weekend is one long traffic jam as
kids heads for the beach. In San Francisco, it's Ocean
Beach and Baker Beach. On the Peninsula, it's probably San
Gregorio State Beach. In the North Bay, it's Stinson
Beach. In the East Bay, it's Crown
Memorial Beach. See my Favorite
Beaches page for some other beaches. See the California
Beaches Travel Guide.
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Museums -- It's a lot harder to drag teenagers to museums
than pre-teens, but they may need to go to help with their school projects.
Many of them are fun places to go with their friends, and since they are
relatively safe places, you know your teens are not likely to get into
trouble (as long as they don't cause trouble). See the list of museums
in my page for school-age
kids.
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Sporting events -- the Sharks
at the San Jose Arena, the 49'ers
at Candlestick, the Giants at PacBell
Park, the Oakland Raiders and A's
at the Oakland Colliseum, and the Warriors at the Oakland Arena. There
are also minor league sports--the San Jose Giants minor league baseball
team, the San
Jose Sabrecats arena football team, and the San
Jose Earthquakes and CyberRays
soccer teams. There are also the college teams--Stanford,
Cal
Berkeley, San Jose State,
Santa Clara U, San
Francisco State,
USF, Sonoma
State, Hayward
State, St. Mary's,
etc.
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Racing -- Teenage boys like to watch auto racing. For that,
there's Sears Point International
Raceway near Sonoma, Altamont
Raceway near Tracy, Watsonville
Speedway, Antioch Speedway,
Stockton
99 Speedway, and Laguna Seca
near Monterey. They can go miniature car racing at Malibu
Grand Prix in Redwood City, Karts 'N Golf in Fremont, and Camelot Park
in Livermore. Editorial: Do not get your teen a motorcycle! My kids' orthopedist
has a sign on his wall that says, "Get your son a motorcycle for his LAST
birthday."
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Competitive sports: baseball, football, hockey, basketball,
tennis, volleyball, golf, etc. These are sports that teens can participate
in. Usually these are organized through the schools or local clubs. As
parents, your role is to pay for the equipment, provide transportation
to the events, and cheer for your kids.
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Outdoor sports: hiking, bicycling and mountain biking, skateboarding,
inline skating, rock climbing, kayaking, whitewater rafting, water
skiing, hunting, fishing, sailing, camping, swimming, diving, surfing,
windsurfing, and snow skiing/snow boarding. Again, the parents' role is
to provide funding, guidance, and transportation, more than direct participation.
A good place to go for resources is a sporting goods store, like Big 5,
Sportsmart, Any Mountain, REI, and Mel
Cotton's in San Jose. Some links:
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College Tours -- The ultimate goal for every parent is to
have their kids go to college and get a good career. Teens need to start
thinking about college in the junior and senior years of high school, but
it's never to early to start. A good way get teens excited about going
to college is to tour college campuses. This can be fun because colleges
are neat places with lots of activities going on. See my California
College Tour pages. If you take a tour
of UCSB, you can make it a family vacation.
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Ron Horii, San Jose
Created 10/6/97. Last update: 8/5/01.